as i sit here in the overstuffed comfy chair, unshowered, in pajamas, on my third cup of overly creamer’d coffee on a dreary rainy day….I realize, I’m good with it. Too often, as women, i think we feel the need to constantly make sure our proverbial ducks are in a row. I find myself going behind my grown ass college kids to make sure theirs are also in rows. Today, on 1-2-22, I’ve decided that they can do it they damn selves. Lord knows I’ve shown them how. This year is going to be about me. Taking care of my health, mentally and physically. Focusing on plotting less murder, and planning more things that make me happy. I’m starting today thanking the good Lord for another day and for what i have, them I’m gonna take a nap. Then I’ll make sure i have scrubs and lunch for tomorrow, then maybe have a glass of wine or three. The cheap kind that really kicks you in the ass, like you’re 18 drinking Boones Farm at at Sigma Nu party, morning classes be damned. But I digress…Ladies, love yourselves and each other. Put down some some of that baggage we all carry, and start enjoying every day. Stick with us, we’ll talk you through it. This blog is written by three best friends of 40 years. Small town to big city, crazy families, births, deaths, laughing …a lot of laughing. We have smiles through the hardest parts of our lives, sometimes together, sometimes in spirit. But always with love. Also with some pretty strong Southern accents that show back up in full force when we are together. It’s our superpower, y’all.